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a young
adult experiences the joy of receiving through the act of giving
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by Aparna Murali,
Los Angeles, California
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"It is one of the most beautiful
compensations of this life that no man can sincerely try to help another
without helping himself" --Ralph Waldo Emerson
The dawn of December 25, 2004, brought
amongst many things the promise of another beautiful day with clear blue
skies in Southern California. It felt as though nature was reminiscing
with fondness the advent of God which occurred almost two thousand years
ago. The entire atmosphere was charged with divine vibrations.
The
local Sai center organized a special Christmas day celebration with two
seva projects. In the morning, we assembled at a devotees' home to prepare
gift bags, artistically decorated and included chips, candies, peanuts
and fruits. It took less than two hours to assemble about one hundred
such bags for the inmates of the local juvenile correction center. All
the while the devotees were singing carols and bhajans, enjoying the true
spirit of the season.
In the afternoon, we headed to the convalescent
home in Studio City, Los Angeles, to visit the elderly and sing carols
for them. All the residents of this home were beaming with joy on having
visitors on this special day, greeting us with hugs and kisses. Their
enthusiasm and participation in carol singing took us by surprise. The
mutual exchange of love and affection was not only inspiring but tremendously
energizing.
Feeling rejuvenated, we then proceeded
to the juvenile corrections center in Malibu which houses more than a
hundered boys from the age group of fourteen to eighteen. It was around
dinner time when we reached the center. All the devotees lined up on either
side of the dining hall and handed out the gift bags to each boy as they
walked in, wishing them a merry Christmas. They seemed to be puzzled and
slightly amused at the sight of us, complete strangers, standing in very
cold weather on Christmas Day, wishing them a happy holiday. We later
learnt that these boys were extremely thankful that some one would take
the time and effort to be with them and, for them on this special day.
What was even more gratifying was the sight of happy grins on the faces
of these young boys when they opened the gift bags. Their Christmas dinner
would have otherwise been only a sandwich and a carton of milk.
In true modern Christmas tradition, we
all received and gave away gifts that day. It was no ordinary gift which
could be purchased with money or by any other means, nor could it be returned
unused. And, the happiness of possessing this gift did not last only for
that day, it would last forever. It was a gift from Bhagawan. It was the
gift of Love.
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